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Instructions to My Loved Ones


An important step in planning ahead is to notify your close family members, friends, or attorney who will be involved in taking care of your end-of-life arrangements. This form includes a place to record important information that can be safely shared with someone who will both protect your information, and provide it to the appropriate parties as needed.
To My Loved Ones

I wanted to spare you as much anxiety, doubt and confusion as possible at the time of my death, so in this document, I have shared my preference for arrangements in advance.

This document is confidential, and I trust you with my personal information such as vital statistics, funeral service guidelines and cemetery requests, which are all important to the funeral director while assisting you to plan the details of my service. I am in good sound of mind and no one has persuaded me to make arrangements that I did not want.

I’ve also included some personal material for eulogies, obituaries and other remembrances. Please accept these arrangements in the spirit in which they are given; with love, hoping to give you comfort and helping you to remember the times we shared.

Vital Statistics About Me

Please identify those who are deceased
Please identify those who are deceased
Please identify those who are deceased
Anyone else you would like to list

Work/Education History

Military Record

Funeral Or Cremation Preferences

In most cases, required for public viewing

Service Preferences

Not required to list

Personal Life Review for Ceremony and Eulogy

Next of Kin Information 

**Next of Kin listed in order of Legality
List further information if necessary

Personal Documents, Papers and Account Information

Birth Certificate, Marriage License, Will, Trust, Deeds, Titles, Social Security Card, Tax records, etc.

Additional Details


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